2022

 

In just a few days, another year will have gone by - what changes has this brought to you??  Our sermon this last Sunday was delivered by our associate pastor Keith Bostian in order to give Senior Pastor Vance Eubanks a break and a chance to enjoy his family. I am starting this blog off with the sermon as it fits in so well with starting a new year. Evaluation is good for us all. What have you accomplished in 2021 and in your life in general? We to to assess what has happened in our lives in the past. Celebrate all the good and bad things. After you evaluate you need plans for the future. Make a vision and plan on where you want to go. Read Philippians 3:13-14 and Habakkuk 2:2-3. Make a plan, write it down, and tell others about it for accountability. Set attainable and realistic goals - but not beyond your ability.  Three things to remember:

1) Pace - set a pace not too slow or too fast. Don't push yourself too hard. We are running two races - the earthy one (we need to slow down) and the spiritual race ( we need to pick up speed). Get involved in Bible studies, small groups, etc.

2) Place - this is where you do your quiet time. Jesus spent a lot of quiet time - alone. Set apart time to spend with the Lord. Do this even by serving.

3) Plan - after assessing your self, you need to plan where you are going to need to be. what do you need in your spiritual life. Do you need to be better at defending you faith to tell others why you believe what you believe. We all need accountability in our lives to spur us on just as iron sharpens iron. We need to be encouragers and cheerleaders for others, because "Perhaps today" is the day Jesus comes back. Be prepared.  

My brother sent me a flower pot for my birthday in early December  which contained various flower bulbs - amaryllis for sure and hyacinth. There were just a few tiny buds in the  pot - now there are 11 plants and are blooming - so much fun to watch!

                                         They are growing like weeds and starting to bloom. 

"For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1. English Standard Version. I feel very strongly that I need to move on - to branch out and try my wings, so to speak. Therefore this is probably the very last blog for awhile. I will show up somewhere else in a different form perhaps, or different type of encouragement. I am not sure, but feel it is God's plan for me. I remember when I first published my first blog (April 4, 2011) I was thrilled that I had done so. Now I cannot believe that it is over 10 years later!!!! All of the blogs are here on this site so you can go back and read what you may have missed. I hope I have touched each and every one of you in some way, offered encouragement, or even answered some questions. God bless all of you - 

Who Was Joseph?

Who was Joseph? He was never quoted in the Bible, his words were never recorded, yet he had one of the most important jobs in the history of man. We know he was a carpenter, husband of Mary, and foster father to Jesus. He was a righteous man and lived a religious life , otherwise God would not have chosen him to be the earthly father of Jesus. He was a Galilean who probably spoke with a rough accent of that area. As was the culture at that time, a Jewish man did not marry until he had an established trade and since he was a well thought of carpenter, we can assume he was at least 30 years or older. Mary was a young girl, perhaps just a teenager, so how did she catch Joseph's eye. Did he see her at the well, or was she a relative or friend of a relative? It was thought that they had known each other since childhood, and the matter was arranged in the traditional way by their parents. Both of them were happy with the arrangement, and expected to have an ordinary, pleasant life. Joseph was an obedient man, both in his religious and secular life. He obeyed the angel and took Mary as his wife even though he had earlier thought to quietly divorce her. He followed his government laws and took Mary to Bethlehem to register as was ordered by the ruler. He had Jesus circumcised in 8 days as was a religious law. We  are told that he went every year to Jerusalem at the solemn day of the Pasch. There were two other major yearly festivals, so Joseph may have gone to Jerusalem three times a year. It was at one of these festivals that Jesus was left behind at age 12.  Not much is mentioned about Joseph and we can assume that he dies early in Jesus' life as he is not mentioned again. He was not mentioned at the crucifixion when Jesus told John to take care of His mother. He was an ordinary man who God used in extraordinary ways. 

It was a busy week as we prepare for the Christmas. Reading Luke as we follow the story of Christ's birth. Also baking, last minute shopping, a day of decorating cookies with the greats, a visit form Santa who brings the Christmas pj's, visiting relatives of those who will be gone elsewhere for the holiday. 

                  a local church had a Christmas at the Mill day here in Prairie Grove complete with a live                                                                             Nativity scene

                                         Pizza before cookie decorating - mac and cheese pizza ????

                                                         ready to deocrate

                               the finished product - lots of sprinkles but what is cookie decorating for

                                                  all done and snuggled in to watch Polar express

                                    the day before they received their Christmas pj's from Santa

                                          don't they look like angels? not all of the great grands though.

The third candle is the candle of Joy.  It is the candle of love and salvation and sometimes called the Shepherd's candle because of the good news of great joy. Joy is part of the Christmas event - Mary's song of joy,  joy, the shepherd's joy, Elizabeth's joy upon hearing of Mary's upcoming birth, the unborn John the Baptist leapt with joy in Elizabeth's womb when he heard Mary. Joy is like putting a puppy in a box for Christmas. What does it mean to have joy - not just happiness and favor but pure joy. Joy is much deeper than that. "Joy to the World" was written by Isaac Watts. He loved to make every thing rhyme - even in his everyday life. The lyrics to this song were inspired by Psalm 98. Jesus coming to earth brought joy to the world. The angels coming to the shepherds changes their lives altogether - just as Jesus changes our lives. Fear not the angels told the shepherds, do not be afraid. Fear not is is the most used phrase to us in the Bible. As God's people we are to not live in fear. Fear and anxiety are at an all time high in our world today. Because of this we can lose our sense of joy. The world always has been fragile but it seems that today is the utmost of fragility. There is Good News - imagine the joy in the shepherd's hearts and minds. The Savior was born after centuries of waiting!!! The Child would be Christ, Savior, and Lord. Our greatest need was forgiveness and God sent Jesus because He fulfills all of His promises on which we can rely. There is Great Joy - this is our response to the coming of the Savior. Great joy has a great source. We are filled with joy even though we never personally met Jesus in person. Joy is greater than our circumstances because of Jesus. We can have joy even if we don't have happiness. No one can take away our joy in having Jesus as our savior, Messiah, and King. We can find joy even in the darkest times of our lives. Mary chose joy in the role of being the mother of Jesus. She embraced the joy. We can choose joy because of Christ's being in us. The joy is for all people. God wants all of us to feel the joy in His Son Jesus. Even though Isaac Watts found disappointment in his life, especially when the lady he wanted to marry jilted him, he went back to writing songs about Christ. He understood pain and never married. He continued to write about joy and peace. May we al have lasting joy in Jesus.

A blessed and Merry Christmas to each and every one of you. Find joy in the birth of our Savior.   

Tornado!!

 It seems strange to be thinking of tornados in December with temperatures close to 70,  but that is what has happened this past week. I am sure all of you have heard of the devastation this past week in this country. the weather forecasters seem to believe that the tornado  actually formed here in our little corner of NW Arkansas. We were under a warning with rotations all around us, but only got rain and a bit of wind. We sat on our daughter's patio and watched the lights of Prairie Grove go off - all was dark for a few minutes then they came back on again. Please pray for all of those who were in the path of this horrible destruction.

 Saturday our great granddaughters  and step great granddaughter were in basketball games. It had been many years since I was at a basketball ball (probably since I was in high school!) The girls are young- 8+, and really played a great game. It was fun to watch and see how these girls cam be really competitive while doing sports. Guess they are in normal life also. 

Kinsey preparing to pass the ball

Kinley tryng to steal the ball - sorry, but did not get a pic of Shelby who played in another round

I also did something that I had not done in ages - stringing cranberries for the outside tree. I wanted to also use popcorn, but was leery to do so because the squirrels would probably had raided the tree also!! I looked today but does not look like any birds have tried the treat yet, but the cardinals seem to b be hanging around more. 

stringing process - note to self - do not freeze the cranberries first - cold fingers

cranberry ropes on the tree

                                                                        the outside tree at night

                                                             even the cedar bushes sparkle

                     candles made from blocks of wood - they light up and look like they are burning

We went to the Prairie Grove Christmas parade on a cold night, but the little kids collected lots of candy! Santa was on a float (he is coming here for the kids Friday night, so my daughter needed t remind him to tell the girls he saw them at the parade!!). It was a really great parade for a small town - even the Grinch was there.

                                                           Grinch on his motor trike

Have you ever wondered why God chose Bethlehem for His son to be born? It was a small, no nothing town full of hard working folks.  It was foretold by the prophets that the Christ would be born in Bethlehem many centuries before He was born. Mary and Joseph did not live in Bethlehem, but because of the plan of His Father, Jesus was  indeed born there. I often thin of the many things that on the surface appear inconvenient to me are part of God's plan to get me to my Bethlehem. What to me seemed to be disappointments were actually steps to where He wants me to be. Bethlehem reminds us of what God promises - Bethlehem is a place of your providence.   What He has promised, He will perform. Make me a Bethlehem.

When Jesus came into the world we became aware of how valuable we are to Him. "Glory to God in the highest heaven and on earth peace to those on whom His favor rests". Luke 2:14 God's hope for us to to find peace. Christ is the Prince of Peace. May the peace of God that transcends all understanding rest on you. There are ways in the Bible to understand Peace. There is peace with God. "therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand." Romans 5:1-2 The peace on earth that Jesus brought was for those who were in Christ. Because of that relationship we have peace and grace when we accept Jesus Christ. God brought forgiveness through His Son, thus we have reconciliation. We are objects of God's favor - children of God. Everything Jesus did was to establish peace with us. Accept God's terms - put your faith in Jesus Christ. There is also peace of God. God wants you to emotionally and physically experience God's peace. The peace of God is my restful assurance proving who God is and that He is faithful to do what He says He would do. God's got it!! Peace is a blessed experience in life especially in this chaotic world. Every time Jesus met with His disciples after the resurrection, He mentioned peace. We as Christians will suffer heartache in this world because of our beliefs, but be assured God will give us peace. No matter the situation Jesus put the Holy Spirit in us to give us constant assurance that God is with us.  Read Philippians 4:6-7. You can go to God in prayer and He will give you peace.  "You will keep in perfect peace those minds who are steadfast, because they trust in you". Isaiah 26:3. We have a blessed assurance of peace - but God will give you a perfect peace.     

It's beginning To Look a Lot Like Christmas

 It is indeed beginning to look  a lot like Christmas. Every store is decorated and full of Christmas items, enticing you to buy me, buy me. I admit I have gone to a few craft sales and enjoyed looking at all the beautiful Christmas decorations which do indeed put a person in the Christmas spirit. I am now thinking about Christmas baking - especially the cutout cookies that I love to bake. I also love the walnut filled dates, rolled in sugar. Is that an ethnic treat? All I know is that my mother used to make them and I loved them. We are still with our daughter - it seems that looking for a place to live should not be so hard, but we are still at it - I am sure the Lord has a place for us somewhere!! Our daughter loves to decorate - so the outside area is lit up with lights and decorations. So very pretty and festive. I helped our son-in-law put up pine and cedar bows he cut from their trees. Big mistake - I itched for 2 days.  No, I am not forgetting the true meaning of Christmas - I will get to that later!!!

      a traditional tree - decorated with many different ornaments - some of mine from years ago, even                                                          ornaments her now grown children made in school

                  pretty door wreath - last night a wren was perched on top of it - what a beautiful sight

                                                 just a tiny bit of the outside decorations 

                                                           even a festive home made door mat

I do love writing out and sending out Christmas cards - It gives me a chance to think and wander down memory lane. I am still sending cards to a girl who lived next door to us years ago in Chicago - at least 70 years ago. Thinking about all that has happened in that time - as well as in the present as I write to new friends. I love receiving cards - I read them over and over often during the Christmas season and think about the person who sent it. After I take start to put the cards away, I chose one at random each day and take time to pray for that person. 

Saturday, the presents ffrom the Angel Tree were given out. These presents were for the children who parents are incarcerated - the presents are given to them as if those parents had sent them. It is a great ministry and I was glad to be a part of it.

Sunday in church was quite interesting. The church we attend (and I am sure many of them here in the South) never had an Advent wreath. At our last Bible Study the minister (our study leader) mentioned that we would have an Advent wreath for the first time. I was really surprised that many of our members had no idea of what he was talking about. It was interesting to hear him explain it and how a candle was lit every week until Christmas. He asked our class (the Joy class) the light the first candle - one person light it and the rest of us just going up to the front. It was interesting to see the reaction of the congregation to witness something they had never seen before. Vance then delivered a sermon based on the first candle - hope. "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life". Proverbs 13:13 What are you hoping for for Christmas? A material gift or a spiritual gift. There is a general observation in the scripture from proverbs which is a book full of observations about life. The observation in this case is the hope - to find satisfaction and hope. Hope is the anticipation of things to come. Sometimes waiting involves more serious complications. If you are waiting for something it can make you heartsick (hmm, like waiting to find a place to live?). When you are waiting for something and you finally receive it, it is the fulfilment of anticipation (the tree of life). Sort of like a child waiting for a much wanted Christmas present and actually receiving it. We long to be connected to God but we are separate by sin. God has set the promise of eternity in the lives and hearts of men. God has a plan to heal our hearts. There is a Christian application - the people of God in the Old Testament had hope for a Messiah. they longed to be free from slavery and to be not separated from God. God did not work on their  time table .  So many centuries has passed before He came. There were 400 years of silence, waiting for the Messiah. After thousands of years, God sent an angel to the shepherds to announce that the Savior had come. God sent His son for a rescue mission for us. There is also a personal transformation. We are also looking for a peace. Jesus Christ is the fulfillment of all our longings. He is the one we have been looking for all of our lives. In this world people are chasing after fulfillment. Having more and more of stuff is never enough. What are you setting your hope in? There are sinful desires -  things our hearts want that are not true fulfillment. We cannot trust our own hearts. We are always chasing after something. There are ultimate desires. There is nothing in this world that can satisfy your heart. We can have legitimate desires. According to Proverbs if you live wisely there are things you can enjoy on this earth. But don't let legitimate desires become ultimate desires.  put your And then there are transferred desires. You need to put your hope in the One who is our ultimate desire. 

Please keep the family of one of our newest chaplains in your prayers - he contacted COVID and his time on this earth is short. The family is with him as he lives out his days on this earth and enters into the heavenly realm. 

Holiday Season

This Thanksgiving season, I think I watched more football than I have in the past 5 years!! For some reason the particular game that was on was "the games to see"!!! I admit I do like to watch a game, especially when the Razorbacks or Packers are playing. 

Now that Thanksgiving is over, we enter the Christmas season -  yes, I say merry Christmas even if store clerks say happy holidays. As Advent approaches, we seem to forget the true meaning of it. Advent” from the Latin adventus means the “coming” or “arrival” of the Christ Child and is marked by the four Sundays preceding Christmas, commemorated in some churches and homes by lighting four Advent candles. We are encouraged to shop early, go to Black Friday sales, or take advantage of the special sales. This is all traditional and full of anticipation, but let us try to forget the worldly celebration and concentrate on the true meaning. Our Thanksgiving was a day of family and food. The great grandchildren were asked what they were thankful for - some answers were family, homes, teachers, and from almost 5 year old Jaylen, cars! Jaylen loves cars and can name the "fast" car if he sees them go by. His grandma's  Jeep is not fast because it does not have spoilers and the engine does not stick out. We had three days of great grandchildren -  Thanksgiving Day - the following day as the twins' parents went deer hunting, and then the other two on Saturday as those parents went Christmas shopping. I did not realize how the little ones really wear a person out!!!It was fun though, and the quiet of Sunday was a relief! As we were decorating the tree, one of the great granddaughters found an ornament with Baby Jesus on it. It gave me the perfect opportunity to talk about what Christmas was all about. 

the twin great granddaughters helping their Dad  grind deer meat into hamburger. Their Mom shot a deer that was cleaned and processed at Grandpa's house, then wrapped, ready to be frozen.

some of our great grandchildren - poor Jaylen was the only boy until the latest, Connor, was born. 

The weather is cooler, but even though the leaves are off the trees, it is still beautiful in the woods - even all of the leaves on the ground create a beautiful scenery. It does not snow much here in NW Arkansas, but when it does, it is beautiful. I even loved the snow when we lived in Wisconsin especially when there were huge, fluffy flakes that piled up for a few days. The kids played in it often when they were little - lots of wet clothing drying downstairs. With 4 girls, we always seemed to have a lot of single socks in the wash - they were piled in a basket. When it snowed they just grabbed mismatched socks to to play outside - after all, no one saw them in their boots. After they were grown, we adults took advantage of the winter weather to snowmobile or cross country ski, never worrying about the cold. Now I would rather curl up under a blanket and read a good book. A sign of getting older?  Hmmm.

We finished up I Peter this last Sunday as Vance will be preaching the Advent sermons now until Christmas. God is large and in charge. Do not grow weary and lose heart. We need encouragement in our walk with Jesus. We need to do what it takes to stay connected to God. We are in the season of the great Resignation or the Big Quit. Because of the struggles of the past 2 years and COVID, many people are quitting their jobs because of mandates - some folks are so discouraged that they even quit attending church. Chapter 5 in I Peter is Peter's final instructions to those who want to follow the Lord. We need to surrender our will to God. Peter tells us that we all need to clothe ourselves in humility. He opposes the proud and gives grace to the humble. Humility is having confidence in God. We need God - we cannot do it on our own. Surrender is not giving up but giving over to God. We want clarity - the ability to understand what He wants for us, but it can turn into us wanting control. Having more clarity is to have more trust in God. Surrender your worry to God. Strive to strengthen your walk with God. It is time for us to be awake and alert because we have an enemy - Satan.  Peter wants us to not fear the roar of the lion but to stand firm in our faith. Make a choice to be engaged in God. The devil is not stronger than God - resist the temptation of the devil. See the work of God all around you. He will hold you up where you need to be held up. 

Thanksgiving

 

Thanksgiving -the time of year when we think of turkey, stuffing, and pumpkin pie. Almost the end of fall and the promise of winter. Some folks are anticipating Thanksgiving so they can rush out the following day and shop. How in the world did Black Friday ever get started?? The term ‘Black Friday’ first appeared on September 24, 1869, when two ruthless Wall Street stockbrokers named Jay Gould and Jim Fisk, hatched a plan to buy up as much of the country’s gold as possible and sell it for massive profit. This ruthless plan unraveled on that fateful Friday, causing the stock market to crash and the rich and poor alike to become bankrupt in the process. Following a law that passed in 1941 that officially made Thanksgiving the forth Thursday in November, in the early 1950’s people began calling in sick the day after Thanksgiving, both to extend their holiday and to take advantage of the fact that stores were open. Rather than cause a HR headache by trying to determine who was genuinely sick and who was playing hooky, many bosses decided to include the Friday after Thanksgiving as an additional paid holiday. This trend spread, and soon many people were taking advantage of the extra day to get a head start on their Christmas shopping. But the craziest part of all? Black Friday isn’t actually the busiest shopping day of the year – that award  is given to the Saturday before Christmas. Shopping is not what should be thinking about though. It should be a day that you concentrate on thanking God for all the blessings He has bestowed on you and your family and not dwell on the negative. Many have had tragedies, deaths, loss of family through separation and divorce, etc. but in all of this we need to thank God for each and every day and know that all has happened for His glory. And don't let your thanks end on Thursday - be thankful every day of the year. 

A friend of Fred's passed away last week - end - a friend for  over 60 years when they were kids back on the farm in Wisconsin. I have had him and his wife for friends for over 60 also when we were first married - she and I became friends because our husbands were. We are about as different as day and night and learned to respect each other's differences and have a great time together. It seems as if they were there though all the fun and sad times, too. We are so thankful (there's that word again) that we spent some time with the last summer in their beautiful Northern Wisconsin home on a lake. Please keep his wife and family in your prayers for strength and peace in the coming holiday season.

    I love it hen Pastor Vance takes a book of the Bible and goes through it chapter by chapter so we come to a better understanding of the circumstances as to how, why, and when it was written. We are continuing in I Peter. We usually go over it in our Bible Study class on Wednesday with Vance leading, but thus week we have no class so all can get ready for the holiday. We had to be more alert Sunday to his sermon on Sunday! This is the week on Thanksgiving where we need to be thankful for everyone and everything.  Make amends with those who need it. The good news has been proclaimed. When Jesus came He came as the blameless lamb for the sins of all. Jesus dies for you. We are human and sinners and cannot change that - we have rebelled against God. The Good News is that God gave His son Jesus for us. Jesus died to bring us to God. Do you want to be in heaven forever with God? This is what God really wants for us. Your sins were paid for in full through the resurrection of Jesus. Here is the Good News explained:

1) It is salvation from sin. We are saved from the mistakes in our lives. God gave us baptism to give us a clear victory over Satan, sin, and death. Baptism is a way for God to give you a new look on life through Him. Baptism does not remove dirt from the body, but saves us by the resurrection of Jesus Christ. There is nothing more humble than submitting yourself to God. Baptism is a submission to God through Jesus Christ.

2) The Good News is Victory over Satan. Jesus took His time to go to the hill to preach His Victory. The letter from Peter was written to encourage those who were persecuted for their belief in Him.

3) The Good New sis the hope of heaven. He conquered the grave so we can conquer the grave. Jesus is now at the right hand of God. He is there to intercede for us to His Father. 

Are you in Christ? Give a confession of what you believe, repent, and be baptized. His blood will wash away your sin. Be thankful for HIs death.

Everyone have a truly happy Thanksgiving - enjoy the day with family, clear up any discontent, leave some pumpkin pie for me.

  

Reflections

 A thought - whatever the biggest thing in your life is will make you feel that it is the biggest thing in your life. Whatever it is that takes precedence in your thoughts and mind is your biggest issue today. It probably was not so last week and probably will be not so next week. You are the one who chooses what is the biggest issue in your life.  Make God the biggest thing in your life - put your trust in Him. Everything else will seem smaller by comparison. 

And now it is brag time - a picture of our latest  great grandchild - Connor James, born Sept. 11. I bet you can't tell what state he lives in!!!! What a wonderful, happy smile. 

 Who could have imagined that when we were married over 59 years ago that our little family of two would grow to  21?? (not including 1 foster and 2 step-greats). I am sure more families have more members that that (hmm - perhaps Adam and Eve). Which brings another thought to mind - there were only two times in the history of the world that the entire population believed in God - during the time of Adam and Eve, and then after the flood with Noah and family. I wonder if this entire blog will be wandering in all directions? Seems like that kind of day.

We are still in search of a place to live - but it does look like the housing market is slowing down a bit. We had a good prospect yesterday, but again it was not what we thought. We know the Lord has a place for us - we need to listen and wait for Him to speak. He is certainly testing my weakness - patience.

We are the only Bible that some people ever read. Do we represent Jesus Christ? In order to show that we follow Him we need to be an example. Live in harmony with one another. "Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate, and humble". I Peter 3:8. We as the body of Christ have to be an alternative culture in today's world. Live in harmony - be united in how we live with on another. Have sympathy - rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. Just be in their presence - words are not necessary. Love one another - have a family relationship with others. Be compassionate and tender with others. Be humble and have a servant's spirit. Be a blessing to others Do not repay evil with evil. Love those who are our enemies- love those who do not love us. Be courageous. there is no promise that we would not suffer from being good. Fear the Lord's wrath by letting Him be the example for us. Be prepared to be ready to give an answer for the hope we have but do this with gentleness. Be respectful. Win others to Christ by being respectful and do so with gentleness. Seems as if this message is full of directives - sum it up two words. Be Christlike.

Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift…that’s why it’s called the present."~Unknown

Excuses

 I have no excuse for being so late with the blog this week. I have not been overly busy, nor sick, just totally slipped my mind when I finally realized last night that I had not done the blog, it was too late to get up out of bed and blog. So please overlook my forgetfulness.

I had inadvertently forgotten to post pictures of our great grand kids at Halloween - they all came to visit and get their goodies. It must be very difficult to take the kiddos trick or treating today - seems as their is too many dangers out there. I can still remember the fun and excitement of running around i the neighborhood trying to get our plastic pumpkin filled with treats. We received different things when I was younger - a lot of homemade items - cookies, popcorn balls, apples, etc. I would love to do that today, but know it would not be well received.   I do believe I mentioned before tyht we lived in Wisconsin when our girls were younger, so all costumes had to be bought or made with the thought in mind that they had to fit over snowsuits!!

                                                     

                                                              the pandas are the twins, Shelby id the half angel, half devil                                                 (when she came to hug me goodbye, I asked her if I was hugging the angel or                                             devil - she replied "the angel of course",  Harmony in the back took off her                                           costume - she was a dinosaur, but the batteries worn out on whatever was part of                                                                                her costume. 

                                                         

                                                          Brielle nad Jaylen , not sure who or what they are

The trees are turning so beautiful here in NW Arkansas - there are tons of color from red to orange and yellow, with  lots of green thrown in. I love the change on season. Just looking at the mountains all aglow in color reminds me of how great the Lord is - He does all of this for our viewing pleasure.

                                                   

                                                           all of the streets are lined with natural color

The twins were guests for the weekend. The cooler weather was perfect for roasting smores. Ii even indulged, as I have not had one in many years - and they were just as good as I remember.     

                                                           the fire is ready for the roasting

                           such serious looks on their faces - trying to get the perfectly roasted marshmallow

                               Now I may have the wrong, but I do believe this is Kinley - a happy smile

                                               her sister Kinsey - looks like she was a bit colder than her sister

We still do miss the Valley and Caring Hearts ministry - especially when we talk to those who were involved in it with us. The ministry still exists, but on a smaller level. We talked to our dear Ida today and are getting her all arranged to receive produce along with the other donations that she receives. Our contacts there are doing all they can to help her receive the food she needs for the folks in need. 

Vance continued in his series with I Peter. We have Bible Study on Wednesday where we discuss the sermon - it s great because everyone seems to get a new and inspiring view of what we heard.  I Peter 3 is often misunderstood as saying that women are subservient to men and have to obey their every wish. 

this is certainly not true. We have an opportunity to show others our love for Christ is through the love of our family. Peter was an evangelist. As Christians we are different - so that makes a difference on how people receive Christ. It is at this time that we almost Peter structured his life to be an example for Christ. Do people you live with know you are a Christian? Be a witness to Christ in your marriage. Are you a good witness to your spouse? Your home should be the first pace that your Christianity shows up. Peter was married (remember when Jesus healed Pater's mother-in-law - (see Luke 4:38-39).  In that culture, when man was a Christian, his whole household  were all Christians. But if a wife was a Christian and not her husband, it was unprecedented. Peter was encouraging Christian wives to be a witness to their husband who was not. Any submission we give is following Jesus' way. It makes us free to see our spouse's view, but being able to sacrifice and appreciate it. Show proper respect so it opens the door for him to listen to you. Submission does not follow a husband into sin. It does not allow abuse. In any relationship we need to influence people without words. Submission is not a sig of weakness - it is a symbol of great redemption - a voluntary selfishness. Husband need to be considerate of your wives the same way Christ submitted to His Father. A husband can be an example to his unbelieving friends. Men should treat their wives as something precious - like a fine china cup. Treat her with utmost respect. Cherish your wife - who is a precious gift. they are heirs with you in the family of Christ.  Learn to lead but not dominate. If you don't, it may hinder your prayers. 

Lift all of those who are in pain and suffering with illnesses - God does answer prayers. 

Total Seclusion

We spent this last week-end in total seclusion with our daughter and husband deep in the Ozark National Forest. Our son-in-law's cousin owns a cedar lodge and were were blessed to be able to spend the week-end there - free of charge but then there was a bit of work that needed to be done which was perfectly ok with us all. If you get a chance google Waterfall House in Deer, Arkansas.  Yep, it has a beautiful waterfall right next to the house that flows most of the time except in the dry season. It is so gorgeous, so secluded that there is no TV or cell phone service. We were able to hook up to the internet to use our phones. They do have Netflex,  etc, lots of DVD's, tons of board games - enough to keep a person busy if they don't feel like hiking the beautiful trails around there. The county road to the house is unpaved - actually a trail through the woods, accessible only by 4 wheel drive or truck or jeep. In order to even get there ( from Prairie Grove) it is a 2-1/2 hour drive, on mostly very curvy, hilly roads. After you drive that for awhile you have to cross a creek before you get to the home. It is difficult to describe such a beautiful place so here are a few pictures. 

                    

                                               

                               It was rainy as we drove to Deer on this road, which is miles of curves

                                              

                                                             there were even patches of fog

                     this is the county road to the house in the National Forest  -a few miles of this

the stream before you get to the house

the cedar log cabin - 

                                                        a relaxing patio space with fire pit

kitchen as seen from the living room

a warm, inviting fire - as the others did the manual work my job was to keep the fire going and tend to the slow cooker for supper! (well, someone has to do it - it gave me tme to snuggle in and read, too).

the Arkansas red cedar walls and ceiling

the fire in the evening from the loft area - we slept in the lower bedroom as I could not envision

 sleeping in the loft and having to come down that spiral staircase at night in the dark!!!

It was truly a special week-end - a beautiful place to spend some time, but I think a bit too secluded for me as the closest bigger town is 45 minutes away. 

Do you have the feeling of not being in control? We may be in that season season right now. We may need a dose of the serenity prayer. Peter discusses what it is to be submissive. He followed Jesus but wanted to keep his own agenda. There were times in his life when he had trouble surrendering to Jesus' plan. Jesus let Peter do it his own way until it didn't work anymore. Jesus allowed Peter to get to that place so he would submit to His will After the Resurrection Jesus appeared to Peter and finally Peter ununderstood what it meant to follow Jesus. Jesus will not meet us on us terms but will meet us on His terms. It is a life long process to always submit to Jesus. It is in our weakness that we find Jesus' strength. In I Peter 2:11 and following, Peter talks about religion and politics - things we tend to avoid talking about. The people that he was talking to at the time tended to have a feeing that they lost control. How we live today has an evangelistic effect on other people. Voluntarily submit to someone in authority. God ordained government and put it in place, as well as putting in place church and family. He did so to retain order. It is hard for us to submit to authority. We cannot agree to everything that is going on in this world today. We need to be free to choose. Learn to submit for the right reasons for His sake and for His will. Live as a servant of God. Fear God. Be conscious of God. we have to trust God for the outcome of our lives. Let God have control of your lives. Submit with the right heart, live as a free man but do not use your freedom as a cover up for evil. Live as servants of God. Learn to submit at the right time. Love your church, your people - honor those in authority. A disrespectful attitude turns people form Christ. We are to be the best possible citizens as we can be, but ultimately we honor and obey Christ. We are called to be respectful, loving, kind people on the planet. 

Heaven on Earth

 I am sure everyone thinks that the place they live is definitely heaven n earth, but this last week-end was certainly that. If there were ever perfect days it was Saturday and Sunday. Storms and rain was predicted but never came - just balmy wonderful fall weather. We were invited Saturday for a fish fry and music on the patio. The food was amazing - fried fish (perch and croppies), hush puppies, coleslaw, potato salad, crab salad, baked beans, corn, and mac and cheese for the kids. If there was room, a Boston Cream cake was served.  My main interest were the hush puppies - wonderful hostess, Shirley, make the very best hush puppies I ever had. Even the resident dog, Angus, loved them. After we all had eaten more than we should have, 3 talented musicians entertained us - not on the patio, but on the lawn. A wonderful day and early evening, socializing while the weather making it a perfect day. Actually, we started out the day with friends for breakfast ( no kitchen time for me on Saturday ). These folks are there every Saturday morning at Mel's Diner, so we just head on down there once in awhile. No need to call or make plans - just show up. 

                                                          Rufus, looking for more hush puppies

                                                       an amazing buffet - deviled eggs are gone

                                           

                                                         great music provided by these special guys

OK now I have a question. Not a serious one, but one that really has no answer, just an opinion. How is your Kuerig etiquette ? Do you leave your pod in the machine for the next person to throw away or do you throw it away yourself? Also, do you check the water level when you make your cup of coffee to make sure there is enough for the next person? Sort of a unimportant question, but there are different points of view on this. Guess our parents never had this quandary. 

I read a devotional the other morning that really hit home. "Do everything without grumbling and arguing so that you may be blameless and pure, innocent children of God, surrounded by people who are crooked and corrupt. Among these people you shine like stars in the world". Philippians 2:14-15. It is so easy to get into the habit of grumbling in daily life. Oh, the checkout lines are so long, why don't they open up more. These light are so long - I want to get home. Why is everyone driving so slow, etc. etc. I fool myself because I see in others grumbling, but to me, I am just offering an opinion. We mistakenly think we have a better way of doing things. (see above paragraph about coffee pods!!!). For the glory of God, we must not grumble. I am going to try to think before I offer an "opinion".

The light of the Lord attracts us. We are called out of the darkness by that light. Have you ever felt that the gates of Hell are against the church? They will not prevail. It will not happen because we are God's people. We are on the winning team. Peter was there when the church was born. He told the people to remember who they were - God's chosen people just as we are. We are set apart for His purposes. In today's world, we are recognized as bring different. We are a royal priesthood, a priesthood of all believers. Because of the crucifixion, we now have direct access to God. We are a holy nation with citizenship in the kingdom of God. We are called to declare what we believe - God is our King. We are not silent witnesses. We are to declare the changes that God has brought into our lives. When we do this, Satan is prepared to go to war and attack us. We need to go to battle for our soul, which is what Satan is after. The bond of sin is broken, but the influence is still there. We need a strategy to do this. Remember who we are -God's people. Remember that our soul is at stake. We need to embrace the fact that it truly is war. Pray without ceasing. Live a distinctive life style. When we do so, people see the uniqueness of how we live. Walk the walk, talk the talk. We get to declare the praises of Him who called us out of the darkness.